Desert Nuns

To Remain

June 15, 2017 by  
Filed under Nun News Blog

Recently my mom shared with me a cute little story about one of my young nieces. The story goes:

The family was enjoying a day of swimming and fun in their pool with both sets of grandparents. Dinnertime came with the hopes of getting back in the pool afterward. However, dinner was longer than expected, it was getting late, and the kids were getting tired, so my brother put the cover on the pool and closed up the pool area. When my niece questioned him about it, he explained that it was late and everyone was tired, so they weren’t getting back in the pool tonight. Adding that it was almost time to get a bath and get ready for bedtime.

She said: “So you lied to me?” He said: “No, I didn’t lie – things happened and I had to change my mind about getting back in the pool.” Needless to say, she was disappointed. And began: “But daaaa-deee, I don’t want to get a bath. I want to get in the pool.”

Daaaaa-deeeee listened but stuck to his decision. This went on for a while. “But I don’t want to get a bath. I want to get in the pool.”

Then my brother sat down on the porch swing and she climbed up on his lap and snuggled up. He swung with her for quite awhile on his lap, trying to give her time to wind down. The whining melted into a calm and loving moment.

The little one was nearly nodding off when she whispered: “Daaaa-deeee?”
“Yes.”
“But I don’t want to get a bath. I want to go in the pool.”

My mom laughed as she told me this story – so adorable and so real. I believe mom delighted seeing her own son parent with such love and patience.

But the story affected me differently. I kept replaying this interplay between father and daughter again and again. Hearing about how my niece relates to her earthly father teaches me so many things about how to relate to my Heavenly Father!

Firstly she was not afraid to ask the hard question: “Did you lie to me?” She listened to his response. However, that did not immediately change her desire. And so she told him: “I don’t want to get a bath. I want to get in the pool” Then she climbed up on his lap. She let him love her. She never distanced herself from him, even though her will was not being done. She remained with him…in her disappointment, in her frustration, in her childish woes, and in her desire. She was not afraid to fall asleep in his strong arms. Nor was she afraid to express her heart to him.

She never left her father. And he never left her.

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5 Responses to “To Remain”
  1. Pamela Milano says:

    Sister Mary Fidelis,

    You have touched my heart so deeply by sharing your insight. I needed to read this tonight.

    Thank You So Very Much for sharing this beautiful story.

    I am constantly amazed of Jesus Love for me.

    Have a Blessed Evening

    Pam

  2. Aunt Patty Davis says:

    Dear Sister Mary Fidelis~
    How I enjoyed your story, it brought me to tears. Especially, because we share that little angel of a niece, albeit, me being the great aunt.

    You always have a way to tell a story and put it into perspective according to Our Lord.

    May God Bless you and the Sisters.

  3. Peggy says:

    I am choked up reading this because of the simplicity of truth and how uncomplicated you made it to love God and allow Him to be God and love us. Just Beautiful!

  4. Samantha Wallace says:

    thank you for these beautiful thoughts! How often I throw a “temper tantrum” and run away when God doesn’t give me my way! I need to be more like this child and TRUST that even though I am not getting what I want, I am loved! thank you!

  5. Rose says:

    Lovely story, yet powerful message. Thank you for sharing.

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